African American children and women struggle day to day with what is perceived as beautiful when it comes to skin tone. Imagine being 5 years old and already feeling inferior to those around you. The reason being is because your skin is a little darker than your peers. People try to convince you that you’re ugly or that you are unintelligent. You would think that at 5 years old you wouldn’t have to face that type of prejudice, especially among your own people.
Colorism is a big part of today’s society. Colorism is a practice of discrimination by which those with lighter skin are treated more favorably than those with darker skin. It happens a lot today within the African American community. There’s a debate within the African American community about what’s considered beautiful skin. It’s creating a huge divide. All you see on Facebook now is Team light skinned or Team dark skinned. There should be no “teams” because all skin is beautiful. People shouldn’t be judged based on their skin tone but on their character. Some of us were taught this growing up but it’s not seeming to register with the ones who are promoting teams or whatever. No one is standing up to point out that it is wrong.
Our African American men are saying what they prefer in a woman, which is a woman of lighter skin. Women of darker skin are sometimes looked at as if they are less desirable by people of their own community. They are called names like "monkey" and "coon" and it makes them feel less than a person. The ones who think they are less than beautiful go to the extremes to try to make their skin lighter. They will do anything to feel better about their skin tone, to feel a part of the world. Skin bleaching is a big concept today. Some women will bleach their skin for all their life, not knowing that it’s only possible to lighten the skin one or two tones and that’s not doing much. They use chemical peels, bleaching creams, mercury injections, or even bathing in bleach. They are harming their skin and possibly even giving themselves skin cancer. They are so low in their self-esteem that they are willing to give their life to be what is perceived as beautiful.
It’s not only dark skinned women that struggle with colorism; it's light skinned women too. They get called "light bright," "high yellow," and all sorts of names. Lighter women face so many stereotypes. Some people think that light skinned women think they're above everyone else and they get alienated from their own community because of it. The skin tone that everyone is anxious to be aren’t even happy being lighter. So why is everyone trying to be that when in reality they would be sad and ostracized too? Why does skin tone even matter when in reality no one is happy?
All skin is beautiful and everyone needs to realize that. No skin tone is above anyone else’s. People should be defined by their character as a person and not by what they look like on the outside. Some of us are taught that in school and growing up but as we get older we seem to forget that. Some of us just want to be liked and loved so we go with the flow of colorism. We all need to be our own person and shut down those team light skinned or dark skinned notions. Once we do that it will eventually fade and people within the community will learn to love and respect each other based on character.
Colorism is a big part of today’s society. Colorism is a practice of discrimination by which those with lighter skin are treated more favorably than those with darker skin. It happens a lot today within the African American community. There’s a debate within the African American community about what’s considered beautiful skin. It’s creating a huge divide. All you see on Facebook now is Team light skinned or Team dark skinned. There should be no “teams” because all skin is beautiful. People shouldn’t be judged based on their skin tone but on their character. Some of us were taught this growing up but it’s not seeming to register with the ones who are promoting teams or whatever. No one is standing up to point out that it is wrong.
Our African American men are saying what they prefer in a woman, which is a woman of lighter skin. Women of darker skin are sometimes looked at as if they are less desirable by people of their own community. They are called names like "monkey" and "coon" and it makes them feel less than a person. The ones who think they are less than beautiful go to the extremes to try to make their skin lighter. They will do anything to feel better about their skin tone, to feel a part of the world. Skin bleaching is a big concept today. Some women will bleach their skin for all their life, not knowing that it’s only possible to lighten the skin one or two tones and that’s not doing much. They use chemical peels, bleaching creams, mercury injections, or even bathing in bleach. They are harming their skin and possibly even giving themselves skin cancer. They are so low in their self-esteem that they are willing to give their life to be what is perceived as beautiful.
It’s not only dark skinned women that struggle with colorism; it's light skinned women too. They get called "light bright," "high yellow," and all sorts of names. Lighter women face so many stereotypes. Some people think that light skinned women think they're above everyone else and they get alienated from their own community because of it. The skin tone that everyone is anxious to be aren’t even happy being lighter. So why is everyone trying to be that when in reality they would be sad and ostracized too? Why does skin tone even matter when in reality no one is happy?
All skin is beautiful and everyone needs to realize that. No skin tone is above anyone else’s. People should be defined by their character as a person and not by what they look like on the outside. Some of us are taught that in school and growing up but as we get older we seem to forget that. Some of us just want to be liked and loved so we go with the flow of colorism. We all need to be our own person and shut down those team light skinned or dark skinned notions. Once we do that it will eventually fade and people within the community will learn to love and respect each other based on character.
